Attention seekers=attractive-wanna be

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Being a hot-chick,hot stuff?.

"I am just being myself"

Now u tell me,is it true that appearance defines us completely n correctly?.

Whenever somebody label u as an 'attention seeker'..u'll become angry.

But when u read magazines, u tend to pay FULL ATTENTION in the segment 'HOW TO BECOME ATTRACTIVE'

Allah has created us with high dignity, true beauty, and high degree of shy.

Allah asked us to cover all parts of our body, exception for face and hands.
Loose shirt,loose pants,loose dress..

a dress which shows humbleness, identifying that we are muslims...

Why so hard?.

Do think seriously bout this, GIRLS..

Why is it so hard for you to cover ur aurat?.

Its okay, I had experienced being arrogant and egoist before..just like YOU.

Fine, if u dont want to MUHASABAH on ur own..let me help u..

Wanna know what the reasons are?.
Here they are..

1)EGO
2)Seeking attention from GUYS.
3)Influenced by the DIRTY MINDSETTING- which u actually think that u look ugly and kinda left behind, no fashion-sense, and watsoeva its called.
4)THINK OF THE REASONS URSELF

I know, u myte say, U want to obey ALLAH's ORDER, but...

1)My family is not ISLAMIC
2)My parents dont allow me to wear veil
3)I feel lack of confidence when i wear so.
4)Belum sampai seru
5)Tunggu dapat hidayah laa
6)
My friends will insult and laugh at me if I wear so..

Or, arrogantly u myte say,

1)kalau dah ade, knp x nak tunjuk?.
2)Allah has created the beauty in girls, we should appreciate it by sharing what we have with everybody.
3)i'm pretty, i'm hot, why, u jealous?.


Astaghfirullah..help us Ya Allah..






Please my dearest friends..
I felt, I experienced being like you before..
Ya, its an enjoyment.
Its fun.
Its a state where u think u can mingle around with any type of people, guys and girls..go wherever u wanna go..do watever u wanna do..voice out and speak out ur words full heartedly, without having to worry about any limits..

Guys,please say yes..
Yes, u are attracted to these girls..they're SERIOUSLY HOT.
U dont have to ask them to show anything, GIRLS ARE DOING IT, AND GIVING IT WITHOUT ASKED
Now you dont have to ask for permission to get close to them..GIRLS COME CLOSE TO YOU THEMSELVES, WILLINGLY

O Allah, please bless me of writing this..

Im writing a REALITY..
This is real..

Girls, please dont blame me,.
Im writing a fact..


Excuses..

Excuses..

Excuse..

Why?.

U RARELY renew ur IMAN..

U DO NOT FULLY DEPEND ON ALLAH!

Why bother about others?

Dont u believe that whatever Allah ask us to do is actually for our own good??

Wearing as a muslim..

Doesnt mean that u seriously need to wear LONG HIJAB.
Doesnt mean that u need to wear all the time BAJU KURUNG or JUBAH.

NO!

Wear whatever fashion u want to..
Allah never state any type of dress..
In fact, HE just mention in the Al Quran cover ur aurat,, an Nur:31


And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husbands' sons, their brothers or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss.




Or if u CANNOT understand, here..specially for MALAYS

Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan-perempuan yang beriman supaya menyekat pandangan mereka (daripada memandang yang haram) dan memelihara kehormatan mereka dan janganlah mereka memperlihatkan perhiasan tubuh mereka kecuali yang zahir daripadanya; dan hendaklah mereka menutup belahan leher bajunya dengan tudung kepala mereka; dan janganlah mereka memperlihatkan perhiasan tubuh mereka melainkan kepada suami mereka atau bapa mereka atau bapa mertua mereka atau anak-anak mereka, atau anak-anak tiri mereka atau saudara-saudara mereka atau anak bagi saudara-saudara mereka yang lelaki atau anak bagi saudara-saudara mereka yang perempuan, atau perempuan-perempuan Islam atau hamba-hamba mereka atau orang gaji dari orang-orang lelaki yang telah tua dan tidak berkeinginan kepada perempuan atau kanak-kanak yang belum mengerti lagi tentang aurat perempuan dan janganlah mereka menghentakkan kaki untuk diketahui orang akan apa yang tersembunyi dari perhiasan mereka dan bertaubatlah kamu sekalian kepada Allah, wahai orang-orang yang beriman, supaya kamu berjaya.


THATS IT!. Why so hard?.

Set ur MINDSETTING.
Be creative
Islam is FLEXIBLE, isnt it?.

Do whatever u wanna wear..Im begging, with the name of Allah and Rasulullah, please wear a proper dress, no matter how u wanna match-make ur dress!.
Create ur own fashion..
Come on, u're not that ignorant..
U've the potential to be excellent in life,
why don't u use it to be excellent in the hereafter as well?.

GIRLS,
preserve ur beauty for Allah..
Do you think ure beautiful when show the *sexiness* in u?
Do u think by wearing so, u're invited to meet Allah?.
Do u think by wearing so, u're respected?.

NO!

Please..Im so weak to help EACH of u about this..

I dont want to be burden by the sins of not being responsible.
I dont wanna get involve in the sins u're doing.

GIRLS..

Allah and Rasulullah LOVE us, RESPECT us, thats y we're asked to do such things.
Dont u feel appreciated?.

GIRLS..

U're beautiful.
Dont lie..
Though u myte say, Im not doing this to attract nor favour any guys.

U ARE LYING!

I leave a question for u to think..

U want to favour ALLAh, or MEN?.

U choose.

MEN, do help GIRLS. Dont stimulate them to be worse!.Remember, u r a LEADER!.
Help GIRLS.
Respect GIRLS.
If u want to be respected by ALLAH.


May ALLAH bless all of us.

Allahua'lam

Comments

salam...
intresting...hehe..
how bout tabarruj???
sumtimes,we dont realize bout it..
mayb can explen deeply bout this as its not enough juz cover the aurat...if tabarruj,cannot maa...
Ladyship Atie said…
salam..

adikku yg te*bam=p
hehe..thanx=D
insyaAllah, will be posted in a new entry soon..

My main intention writing this is to correct the obvious incorrect..
So tabarruj is one further step above.
Relax2 dulu=D
Zayana Yusof said…
hah. good one. serves "you" right. yes "you". we, the hijjabed gurls are doing nothing other than helping u ladies.

do take this positively, okay. =)

p/s go kak atie!!
Ladyship Atie said…
ya, u go yana dear!!
hehe..thanx=D
Anonymous said…
I am a typical guy, do not have a deep knowledge bout my own religion (shame on me) and here is my opinion - perhaps shared by many guys out there.

"Hot girls" who tries their best to get our attention are only entertaining, and it lasts only for a few moments. Perhaps some guys take them as their 'couple', take them out, tell them they love them etc and at last they are left behind while the guys look for other victim. It sounds typical, isn't it?

Personally, I believe guys who haf ratioanality in minds looking for a girl which has iman, their body are covered and obey to her own religions. Does not matter how bad the guys are, they surely have the intention to get someone which is the best for themselves.

So to the girls, stop trying your best to be 'attractive', because you are just decreasing your value as a woman. Do not wait until the day you have no more value.

Sorry if some of the words are too harsh. Wallahualam~
van qif said…
salam...

what to do mardiati, la ni buakan saja gurls, mak budak pun pakai ketat sampai nampak bentuk itu dan ini..(ampunkan aku jika ini mengumpat)

untuk kaum adam memang x selesa bila dah terlalu ramai prefer berpakaian macam tu...bagi lelaki aku akan kongsi sikit nota agama dalam blog aku tentang cara hadapi benda ni..wallahulam
Ladyship Atie said…
salam
amien,

its alryte=D
i dearly appreciate ur views.
That was wat i expected, sincere comments from males.
thanx anyway=)

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Van Qif.

now ni bukan setakat mak budak, tapi yg dah nenek pun lebey kurang je..
astaghfirullah,
tp yg geramnye, muka dah obvious sgt berkedut, tp still nak control cun and bajet cm org muda remaja, dgn baju ketat and jeans ketat..
Ya Allah, kau campakkanlah secebis kesedaran kpd mereka ya Allah..

*semakin berat tanggungjawab yg ku rasa*
Anonymous said…
salam. interesting hehe. tapi kita kena laa ingat setiap manusia masing2 ada ujian sendiri yg mgkn kita tak tau. btwn dia dan Allah swt. we are in no place to judge orang lebih2 lagi judge looks.what we can do is doakan our sisters to understand the true meaning of islam (dan jgn lupa berdakwah menerangkan and remind of islam) and iA isu hijab ini tak akn jd isu biiznillah :)

kuatkan the base dahulu barula decorate the outlook.

Allahu 'alam
morsmode said…
salam
i like this post
nice! :]
Ladyship Atie said…
salam.

kak chapika=D

ya, i strongly agree with u.
i used to be a person where ppl downgrade me bcuz i didnt dress well and properly.
its really hurt.
hope nobody else will feel so.

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matadore dear,

alhamdulillah=)
Anonymous said…
salam..
ilike this post.. i have the same intention but i just dont know how to arrange it in words so that they understand my intention..
would u mind if i copy some part of ur writing in this entry? ;)
let's work together hand-in-hand on giving them the understanding, inshaAllah.

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