I hate theories!

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

As in economic study..there are lots of theories I've learnt, but most of them aren't applicable so much in the real life in anyway..

As in accounting study, as well as economics, there're lots of formats..but as they are all man-made, they're changeable at anytime anyway..

In sociology, there a lot of facts..ya, most of them are based on humans' life, but there are always conflicts in their opinions..In fact, each aspects have more than an opinion..

Even in al Quran and Assunnah..our 'ulama's also have argued in many laws and regulations..

So..Back to my entry title..I hate theories..just because they are not always applicable..and somehow, most people are so arogant, so selfish, and so 'skema' that they stubbornly follow the theories though they are needed to be 'renewed' according to nowadays requirement..

The 'Mawar Berduri' theory..

A question: is this theory mentioned in alQuran or any hadith?.

For the whole week..I've been thinking and comparing myself with this cruel theory..
Just imagine..if you are a girl, and you know that all this while, u've been trying to secure urself, u've been struggling to be yourself and at the same time u are not exceeding the boundaries..All this moments, I've been muhasabah in every single thing happened in my life..Ya, despite somehow I've actually found what are the things I need to improve in me, there comes a lot of obstacles. And all of sudden, people..especially the opposite sex, rank you in the group of 'Mawar yg tiada duri'..ouch!!Mostly the reason is-people are selfish, and they expect us to be as how they want.

Everything happens for a reason..and even so, I know my limits, and I know the rules..clear cut! I know theres nobody for me to share this with..but I do have Allah to help me, guide me in this kind of hard question.

Im like this,,is also for a lot of reasons..that not everybody knows..and u didn't know why..So please..don't simply judge people as how u want. We were nurtured in different lifestyle, different world..I wish we can be as before, but, now just I realised that u're not as how I hope..U didnt respect me as how I wished u would..U are the same as those guys outside who're always looking for a perfection in girls,,but u never concern about how hard their life is..when u're not perfect either..

Approachable doesn't mean that u're the same as 'Mawar yg telah hilang durinya'..
As friendships and networkings are really important.Dear readers, just think about it!

Wallahua'lam..