Be Relevant

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Dear readers, I'VE JUST FINISHED MY 1st YEAR FINAL EXAMS!!

okay tolong hooray for me please please please=p

Macam tak percaya dah nak jadi a 2nd year student. 2nd year wey. Kalau dulu-dulu main darjah 2 je. Okay Atie enough of talking craps.

Actually I want to help some people to answer some other people's questions.

Not trying to be defensive here. Just nak list down assumptions than can be made regarding the issue.

So, what's the issue?.

Why do some women put their CAMWHORE-pictures of covering their face with 'something' in social sites i.e. friendster, facebook, etc?. Kenapa?. Kenapa?. Kenapaaaaaaaaaaa?.

Haha. Drama.

Okay Atie pun pernah ditegur and well..I've been trying my best to minimize my pics here and there. But maybe sometimes it's kind of irresistible. You-know-why la kan. But nevermind. Below are MY reasons why do I sometimes need to display pictures.

• Pictures can tell the whole story, without me having to write a word about it.
• Dah tak ada sebab lain dah. Haha.

Other than that, okay jap I admit..I've deleted all the profile pics of mine on Facebook (recently) so hopefully it'd remain so sampai bila-bila Atie boleh lah inshaAllah haha. Hmm. Back to our main issue, ni my own assumptions la kan. Mari bersangka baik.

• Better kot daripada diorang letak gambar full face of theirs. Kalau tak nanti exposed segala jenis jerawat yang ada kat muka tu. Kan?.[satgi ada yang mengamuk atie cakap pasal jerawat haha]
• Maybe they are not actually a niqabi or not a full-time niqabi. Niqab is not a must-wear thing anyways (according to some mazhabz)
• Lain-lain, tanyalah mereka personally. Atie pun ada jugak tegur personally those yang letak gambar macam lebig-lebih dengan niqab lepas tu letak caption yang macam bombastic which made me annoyed tapi lepas tu dia kata thanx then Atie pun okay. So nak tanya, tanya the persons directly and u'd be satisfied.

Btw, I've read the entry suggested by one of the commentors on my previous entry. Thanks again. I can sense that the writer memang very concern about women and he loves women so much and he's so protective.

Bukan nak defend or whatsoever. Just nak tanya, orang yang menulis entry tersebut, dan sesiapa yang mempersoalkan perkara ni, tolong delete all ur pics from those sites macam blog, facebook, etc, boleh?.Satu lagi, gambar yang diletakkan untuk intro entry tu, gambar mata seorang wanita. Kenapa letak gambar tu?. Why not put gambar pokok?.

Haha sarcastic tak. Cuba fikirkan apa yang Atie cuba sampaikan.

Cuba kita try, all of us jangan put any single pic langsung.JOM!.

Susah kan?.Itulah manusia.

I believe all of us acknowledged that aurat lelaki is from pusat sampai lutut, and women's is everything excluding face and tapak tangan. Both pun wajah tak aurat. Soo, I believe, tuntutan untuk tidak meletakkan gambar di mana-mana pun, sama. Please note that, Atie tidak mengatakan bahawa perempuan should letakkan gambar-gambar anywhere they want. It'd be too much kot.

So sebenarnya, we just have to chill out. In any circumstances pun. Bukan this issue je. Sebab dalam dunia ni, bukan kita seorang, tapi RAAAAMMMMAAAAIIII sangat orang which we can't merely judge them based on our stance. Kalau ada keraguan, siasat dulu dengan cara yang betul. Allah je yang MAHA TAHU. ngerti enggak?.

For instance, ada orang dengar analogy tentang akhlaq mencerminkan iman. I agree, but people have own reasons in things yang they do kan. So u know what I mean kan (:

Rasa macam should sambung lagi tak?. Should I?. Okay sikit je lagi sikiiiiitt je lagi eh hehe.

People may assume that those yang berniqab, banyak ilmu, alim, or whatsoever. In fact, tiada hadith pun yang suruh kita assume that way.

Who knows, entah-entah diorang berniqab sebab nak elak virus H1N1?.Sebab ada orang kata mask untuk muka yang biasa dijual kat pasar and kedai-kedai runcit tu tak cantik, rimas, etc. So diorang choose untuk pakai niqab macam orang Arab tu. haha.

So for me, orang-orang yang berniqab tidak bertanggungjawab atas segala assumption yang dibuat oleh manusia lain. Sesiapa pun, yang tak berniqab, lelaki berniQab, ke siapa-siapa je lah, biarlah apa orang lain nak kata, kan?. Yang penting minta Allah lindungi kita.

Nah ada selingan iklan jap. Haha

Video ni a MUST-WATCH!.TerbaekK!!.haha.

So the conclusion is, teguran itu perlu, tapi biarlah relevant dan ada dalil yang reliable, dalil concrete sourced from the Quran [siapa nak beli al-Quran?.haha] and the sunnah. Dan biar adil.

Sebab Atie nampak ada someone comment on the entry suggested by the commentor, dia kata:

"salam

sekadar berkongsi pndpt,
bg km, prmpuan yg baik x patut pn ade fs ke, fb ke….
buat ape nk pi tyg slruh dunia muke kite btl tak???
entah laaa, mgkn ade yg kate ni slh satu ruang utk berdakwah la, tarbiyah org laaa, nk cr mad’u laa, dn mcm2 lg la. kite fikir blk, tu je ke jln dakwah yg ade pd abad ni??? ha cube pikir… entah laaa.."

Atie quote part of the comment je lah. panjang sangat.

Okay

Relevant ke tak?.Kenapa suka blame perempuan?.

Okay lah u may argue that perempuan should be malu, malu, dan kucing. But hello people, this is the world. Let me give u example of mine eh.

• Pegang jawatan dalam clubs and societies, nak hold events and nak promote. Media yang palin widely reachable is facebook, blogs, etc kan?.
• Promote business dalam blog and all these kind of social sites, boleh market okay..trust me!..haha.

This is what I mean, adil. If you want others to do as what u told, u do it first. And emphasise on all, jangan emphasise on one party je. Nasihat tu tak sampai kot. Ha kan dah keluar taring feminist. Haih jangan emo la haha.

Penat lah. Nanti kalau ada orang yang comment or critique, Atie edit lah. I make mistakes all the time haha. Sorry!.

REMINDER!!

jangan emo. Cool cool je okay hehe (:

ey bosan lah blog ni asyik dengan isu niqab je. takde isu lain ke yg lagi best?.Atie ade 3 bulan cuti ni, lepas ni boleh update banyak-banyak =D